The curious case of anger

Why anger? How does it come into being? Is it always bad and is it only bad? What role does it play in our lives? Anger surely is a curious case in more ways than one could think of. My curiosity to understand anger and an attempted response to one of my friends' poems made me write this poem on anger (https://vaishnaavi.wordpress.com/2020/09/22/anger/)

Anger

It deprives you of oxygen like poison.....

It burns you like fire !!

Maybe....it's the weapon of destiny

For......it may make you do what you never desire!

Or maybe it is a litmus test of your character...

For......a moment of rage can destroy what all you acquire

Only the finest of men can withstand and justify....

While a lot of them might still acquire!

Control and composure is what it simply demands....

For......a word ill spoken may invite undue ire!

Most potent it is.... just a moment of it can materialise....

What takes fate......eons to conspire!!

Even Gods aren't immune to it...

It's as fundamental as love and desire!

It isn't only bad...testing patience and causing pain....

If withered well, it leaves behind a legacy to admire!

Learn to vent it out....or to live with it,

If not accumulated...it ain't as dire!!

Once you decide to let it go... It does surely retire!!

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